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a cynicism has been writing itself into my skin and i am sick to death of it

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posted: 6 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 146,934 notes ♥ - vía / ©

dreadqueer:

There’s a difference between saying trans identity can include agency, choice, and that trans feminitiy should be broad and welcoming to those seeking to abolish their relation to masculinity; and saying that every dude is a potential trans woman or whatever. Lets be nuanced at least.

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posted: 6 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 85 notes ♥ - vía / ©

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posted: 6 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 282 notes ♥ - vía

afrofilipino:

Black trans women are also victims of this same violence targeting black men and black cis women. This genocide is all inclusive. And transmisogynistic violence is heavily racialized. 

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posted: 6 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 3,279 notes ♥ - vía / ©

sludgewave420:

oh let me contribute to the discourse real quick

the Become Trans narrative was really good and cool for me because I never really thought of it as an option, it was a very born-this-way concept coming from a shitty and also bad cis background and I’m glad it was presented like that

but I cannot pretend that “fixes” me or ever really will, it was a starting point not an end point

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posted: 6 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 72 notes ♥ - vía / ©

dreamhound666:

we should all just be each others moms

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posted: 7 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 34 notes ♥ - vía / ©

elizabitchtaylor:

Joan Chen as Josie Packard in promotional photos for the second season of Twin Peaks.

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posted: 7 hours ago on 1/9/2014 with 3,357 notes ♥ - vía / ©

girlkisser2k14:

monetizeyourcat:

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i’m going to address this one point at a time and this is the last thing i have to say about this because i am tired of you telling lies and half-truths to paint me as some kind of fucking monster.

1. i never manipulated you. i never did anything. the context of our relationship was originally a friendship; we became friends in about mid-2014 when i was 18 years old. i invited you to a group chat shortly after that consisted of me and a few trans girl friends.

2. the way you told me you liked me was back in january/february you called me on skype dead on your ass drunk while i was going through a suicide crisis and told me that i couldn’t leave you and i couldn’t DO THIS TO YOU because you LOVED me so much. i spent the next 1-2 hours in a call with you trying to calm you down and in the middle of that went and fucking threw up so the pills i took wouldn’t kill me. the context there is you were telling a 19 year old girl who had recently started her transition that you were in love with her and she coudln’t leave you, while you, someone almost ten years older, were fucking drunk on everclear.

3. the relationship became sexual when you started fucking flirting with me. i was never, ever, ever even REMOTELY sexual interested in you because i’m not attracted to you! because i was scared of you! because the way you behaved in group chats was frightening!

4. i fucking resent so hard you turning our sexual relationship into “i was so uncomfortable with fucking this 19 year old” when literally you’re the one who did it. the first time we met we had a fucking threesome within two hours; you asked to cuddle me and then you and your girlfriend started groping me and kissing me and taking my clothes off. that is exactly what fucking happened and i don’t know how the fuck you’re going to dispute that when i could just ask her myself. (not to mention the weird shit you did when you wanted to fuck me! but hey let’s not talk about that since apparently you “remember it differently” and i guess that means it’s unfair of me to bring up how you fucking me reminded me of the time i was raped at 9 years old!)

5. i came to other people because you fucking scared me and i wanted confirmation that i wasn’t being crazy; i wanted confirmation from others that i wasn’t making up everything about you and that i had good reasons to be scared. funnily enough, several of these people thought similar things!! who fucking knew! there’s a fucking REASON when we remade the group chat we DIDN’T INVITE YOU UNTIL YOU MADE A BIG FUCKING FUSS ABOUT IT; WE ARE SCARED OF YOU AND THE WAY YOU TALK AND OPERATE AND HAVE BEEN FOR MONTHS

6. i came up to visit you in portland after you screamed for hours at my friends who were housing me in california and hten ORDERED them to not tell me about it. i found out about it anyway and found out how scared they were of you and the way you told them that i wasn’t allowed to know things! you screamed at them because i spent too much money while in their care and then told them you were moving me to portland all while not telling me!

7. you told me i was “visiting” portland. you didn’t tell me i was moving there. you didn’t tell me i was moving in with you. you didn’t tell me i was going to be the SECOND homeless girl moving into your 2-bedroom apartment for a total of 4 people on no furniture. you told everyone EXCEPT For me, deliberately, because you knew i’d be uncomfortable with it. because i was! after i came up to visit you you kept talking to me about “settling down” and “getting my things set up here” and i was confused! incredibly confused! i didn’t find out you intended for me to fucking move in with you until i was already on the train up to visit talking to friends on skype. i had no fucking clue what was happening because YOU TOLD PEOPLE NOT TO TELL ME; YOU UNDERMINED MY AGENCY AND TOOK EVERYTHING FROM ME BECAUSE YOU WANTED ME TO BE YOUR FUCKING GIRLFRIEND

8. i finally became okay with moving in with you; i had a crush on your spouse, with which you didn’t really have a relationship! you were on the verge of being separated and were staying in seperate rooms. i asked you permission to hang out with her because i felt that would be polite; you gave it, happily. i asked your permission to become intimate with her and you gave it, in much the same fashion. i later found out she asked you if she could be intimate with me, and you approved it. about a week into my stay with you she and i became intimate, you walked in on it, and got extremely upset. at one point we locked the door so you wouldn’t walk in on us and you became physically and verbally violent. i started making plans to leave and you had to fucking walk out and almost drag me back in because you didn’t want me gone. we never fucking asked you to move out or even IMPLIED it. i started sleeping in sam’s room because your violence and anger made me uncomfortable and scared, and you took that as me somehow fucking blacklisting you or intentionally trying to hurt you. we didn’t fucking force you to move out; you went to seattle to hang out with your girlfriend and while over there messaged us over skype letting us know that you were getting a divorce and moving out. we didn’t do SHIT in that department, that was entirely. fucking. you.

9. i literally never claimed anyone was a teenager other than myself idk where the fuck this is coming from but hey! your targets of abuse and manipulation just so happen to be young trans kids in their late teens/early 20s so What Do I Know

10. oh boy. the greatest cover up ever; lie and then say “i’m going to get accused of lying”, how completely fucking undone and how unheard of as a tactic of abuse!

you moved me into your house under false pretenses, treated me with violence and subjected me to a stressful and disgusting home environment, and then fucking moved out when you got mad at me friendzoning you. that’s what fucking happened you absolute child

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posted: 10 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 500 notes ♥ - vía / ©

and another for sparklykaiju!!!! thank u so much!!!!

and another for sparklykaiju!!!! thank u so much!!!!


posted: 10 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 2 notes ♥

ok so 4 votes for sparklykaiju and 1 for sparklymossbear!!! i like them both so much so thank u guys so much for sharing ur opinions 💖
also omg lena have u not seen pacific rim??? i truly cannot believe this.


posted: 10 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 1 note ♥

so i’m between sparklymossbear and sparklykaiju rn!!!


posted: 10 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 9 notes ♥

transparkle:

trying to pick an okcupid username and i don’t have much so if anyone wants to help i would extremely appreciate it!!! in desperate need of suggestions

rn i have mossybear and sparklymossbear in mind thanks to kai!!!!


posted: 11 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 4 notes ♥ - vía

trying to pick an okcupid username and i don’t have much so if anyone wants to help i would extremely appreciate it!!! in desperate need of suggestions


posted: 11 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 4 notes ♥

"Looting is a natural response to the unnatural and inhuman society of commodity abundance. It instantly undermines the commodity as such, and it also exposes what the commodity ultimately implies: the army, the police and the other specialized detachments of the state’s monopoly of armed violence. What is a policeman? He is the active servant of the commodity, the man in complete submission to the commodity, whose job it is to ensure that a given product of human labor remains a commodity, with the magical property of having to be paid for, instead of becoming a mere refrigerator or rifle — a passive, inanimate object, subject to anyone who comes along to make use of it." — Guy Debord, The Decline and Fall of the Spectacle-Commodity Economy (via boomsticks-and-firewater)

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posted: 12 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 222 notes ♥ - vía / ©

horrible-princess:

it’s interesting to me that ppl associate forced labor with communism when you will most likely literally die if you don’t work under capitalism

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posted: 12 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 1,564 notes ♥ - vía / ©